Brian Herd is a Elder Facilitator and Elder Mediator

Ageing parents effect on adult childrens’ relationships

As our parents age, their care needs can place unexpected pressure on our own relationships. This real-life story reveals how competing responsibilities, family dynamics, and dementia contributed to the breakdown of a marriage, and why early planning and mediation can help families avoid conflict before it becomes a crisis.

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Single… again

Later-life transitions after the death of a partner can place enormous emotional and practical strain on families. Elder mediation helps parents and adult children navigate difficult conversations, reduce conflict, and make informed decisions together, supporting healthier communication and preventing family relationships from breaking down during times of significant change.

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Brian Herd is an elder mediatior and elder facilitator based in Brisbane and on the Sunshine Coast.

Superannuation and Elder Abuse

Superannuation laws may unintentionally allow perpetrators of elder abuse to benefit after a victim’s death. A new government consultation paper aims to address this gap. This article explores the issue, the risks for families, and why reform is needed to prevent injustice in how superannuation death benefits are distributed.

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Brian Herd is a trusted and respected Elder Mediator and Elder Facilitator with over 40 years expericne

How does Elder Facilitation help?

Elder facilitation guides families through a parent’s later-life decisions, covering capacity, finances, legal responsibilities, and aged care options. Unlike mediation, it prevents disputes by providing clarity, shared understanding, and informed planning, helping families act confidently and in the best interests of their loved ones before crises arise.

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Brian Herd is a Elder Mediator Sunshine Coast working with families as they plan for their ageing parents

Aged Care – A Milliner’s Delight

New aged care legislation has quietly created a complex maze of decision-makers and supporters. While designed to protect residents’ rights, this growing web of legal “hats” risks increasing family conflict, confusion for providers, and disputes over who truly holds authority in critical care decisions — especially as Registered Supporters are introduced.

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Brian Herd is a Elder Mediator Sunshine Coast working with families as they plan for their ageing parents

Impoverished Planning

Qualifying for the age pension isn’t always straightforward. From gifting rules to deprivation traps, even good intentions can affect your eligibility. Learn how careful planning, and the right advice, can help you secure pension benefits while avoiding costly mistakes that could impact your retirement income.

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This is where Brian Herd can help your family

With over 40 years of experience in elder law and family conflict resolution, Brian offers two key services to help families prepare, connect, and move forward with confidence:

Elder Facilitation

Plan ahead, together, before a crisis forces your hand – a form of family planning.

Elder Facilitation is a structured, proactive process that brings families together to explore the decisions that come with ageing, while there’s still time to plan thoughtfully.

These conversations ensure that everyone, especially your parent, is heard, understood, and supported. The result? A clear plan that gives peace of mind to all involved.

Through Elder Facilitation, Brian helps families discuss topics such as:

Elder Mediation

When families can’t agree, mediation helps you move forward.

When conflict arises or decisions are delayed for too long, families can find themselves stuck, or even fractured. Elder Mediation is a calm, neutral process that helps families work through disagreements and refocus on what truly matters: the wellbeing of their ageing parent.

Mediation helps restore understanding, rebuild trust, and create practical solutions that everyone can agree on.

Through Elder Mediation, Brian supports families in resolving disputes around:

Brian Herd is an elder mediator and facilitator with over 40 years experience

MEDIATION AND FACILITATION SERVICES

Why these services matter

Elder Facilitation and Mediation provide the structure, clarity, and expert support families need to make the right decisions before conflict or crisis takes over. By addressing these challenges early, you’ll not only protect your parent’s dignity and wishes, but also preserve the relationships that matter most.

ELDER MEDIATION AND FACILITATION

How can I help your family?

Whether you’re facing a family crisis or want to plan ahead with confidence, Brian can help guide the way forward.

Contact Brian via the details below.